Sam and his sister Bronte |
Samuel, from Sydney, is in a relationship with photographer and designer Bradley Tennant but doesn't want to miss out on their baby having both of their family's genes.
As a compromise, his sister Bronte has agreed to donate her eggs so that the couple can have the family they've always wanted.
Samuel said: "It's not too strange when you break it down. We'll be using IVF. It'll be my sister's egg and my partner's sperm with a third-party surrogate, preferably someone who already has a family of their own.
"It's the only way my partner and I can both have a biological connection to our future children.
"It might sound vain to some people, but I think the desire to have a child with the person you love is pretty intrinsic and natural."
Samuel and his partner Bradley |
Samuel has been floating the idea with Bronte on and off for a while, but says they started speaking more seriously about it as they got older.
He said: "I think she's excited about it. We've always been close so I think it means a lot to her that she's in a position to help Brad and I start a family one day."
Bronte won't be known as the child's mother but Sam thinks he and Bradley will call her a 'special auntie' or 'fairy godmother'.
"It's always important for a child to have a strong female presence in their life, so I'm sure she can be that person in a way that doesn't cross the line into parenting."
The couple have a great support system behind them and have had a wonderfully positive response from their immediate family.
Sam and his mum |
Unfortunately, narrow-minded social media users haven't been so understanding - but Samuel takes these with a pinch of salt.
And for all those couples who might consider going down a similar route but are worried about reaction? Samuel has some lovely advice for you.
Sam and his sister when they were children |
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