Vicenza, Italy -- A few years ago Vinicio Riva
boarded a public bus in the northern Italian town of Vicenza. He went
toward the nearest vacant seat but before he could sit down the man in
the adjacent seat snapped, "Go away! Don't sit next to me."
"I wanted to answer back,
but I controlled myself," recalled Vinicio, now 53 years old. "I felt
my blood pressure rise." He stayed on the bus, standing.
"There were lots of people on the bus, and they heard it all, but no one said a word."
Vinicio has long been
accustomed to the unkindness of strangers. He suffers from a
non-infectious genetic disease, neurofibromatosis type 1. It has left
him completely covered from head to toe with growths, swellings and
itchy sores. His mother suffered from the same illness before she died,
and his sister has a milder version of it.
His aunt, Caterina Lotto, says his undershirt is often completely soaked in blood that seeps from the sores.
"We didn't think we would
be so close to the Pope, but the Swiss Guard kept ushering us forward
until we were in a corner in the front row," recalled Lotto, a woman in
her late sixties with a quick smile and an infectious laugh.
"When he came close to
us," she said, "I thought he would give me his hand. Instead he went
straight to Vinicio and embraced him tightly. I thought he wouldn't give
him back to me he held him so tightly. We didn't speak. We said nothing
but he looked at me as if he was digging deep inside, a beautiful look
that I would never have expected."
Vinicio, accustomed to
stares of shock and fear, was initially confused by the pontiff's lack
of hesitation. "He didn't have any fear of my illness," he said. "He
embraced me without speaking ... I quivered. I felt a great warmth."
In moments of drama, odd
details often remain vivid. "I looked down at his shoes," Vinicio's
aunt recalled. "They were like this," she said, holding her hands apart
and laughing. "I thought yes, this is someone who really walks."
The entire encounter
lasted little over a minute, and soon Vinicio and his aunt were back on
the bus, Vinicio in a state of combined shock and joy.
"He was almost not himself," Lotto said. "He was shaking."
"I felt I was returning home ten years younger, as if a load had been lifted," Vinicio said.
But life returned to
normal soon enough. He went back to his job at a home for the elderly,
collecting and throwing out the trash, running odd jobs. He works there
on weekdays and in slower moments enjoys chatting with the residents who
don't seem to notice his condition. His preferred topic of conversation
is the ups and downs of Juventus, his favorite football team.
When I ventured to
discuss football with him, suggesting he should consider the merits of
other teams, like Rome or Lazio, he was dismissive, shaking his head and
wagging his fingers in contempt.
Diego Munari, the
director of the home, said Vinicio's energy and humor help keep the
residents' spirits up. He said, "Everyday he meets a lot of people here
who like him, who chat and joke with him."
When Vinicio finishes
work, he rides his bicycle back to the flat he shares with his sister
Morena. Aunt Caterina says he can be lazy when it comes to preparing
meals, and often prefers to make a sandwich to avoid having to wash the
dishes.
Hada Messia and Livia Borghese had been trying for weeks to speak with Vinicio, ever since the photos of his embrace with Pope Francis
were first made public. Initially his family was hesitant, but the
encounter with Francis emboldened him. A change came over him, he said.
"I feel stronger and happier. I feel I can move ahead because the Lord
is protecting me."
"Now that people have
seen him they will be less detached," said his aunt, who also hopes the
Pope's embrace and the media furor it whipped up will raise awareness
about neurofibromatosis. She is worried that cuts in cash-strapped
Italy's health and social services could impact her nephew.
Vinicio savors his moment with Pope Francis, but says he still has unfinished business.
"I hope he calls me so
we can have a face-to-face meeting him and I. I have many things to tell
him," Vinicio said. One of the hallmarks of Francis' papacy has been to
call people, out of the blue.
"What do you want to tell him?" I asked.
"That's a bit private," he said, shaking his head apologetically. "It's between him and I."
-CNN
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