India's surrogate mother boomtown
Anand, India -- Madhu Makwan asks a reporter
to translate a card in English she received from a Canadian family for
whom the Indian laborer spent nine months gestating their son for them.
The letter reads in part:
"Without your help and sacrifice, we would not be able to have our
family. Please know we will tell him about you and how special you are
to us. We will never forget you, you will always be in our hearts."
Makwan delivered the boy
two weeks ago. "Of course I feel bad -- I kept the child in my womb for
nine months," she said. "But she needs a child; I need money."
Surrogacy in India is booming, thanks to the low cost of the procedure, availability of surrogates in the world's second most populous country and the fact that India is one of the few countries in the world that allows commercial surrogacy.
In one hostel in Anand --
a small city known as the "milk capital" of India in the far western
state of Gujarat -- there are 50 surrogate mothers living together, each
who will earn around U.S.$8,000 for carrying a baby.
"It's a lot of money,"
said a woman who identifies herself as Manjula. "For people like us who
have never seen money, it's a lot of money."
This is the second time
Manjula -- a 30-year-old who has a son and two daughters of her own --
has carried a child for profit. Before surrogacy, she and her husband
used to earn less than $2 a day working in the fields. "The first time I
came, I made a house," she said. "Now I have come for my daughter. I
have to educate her, I have to get her married."
"I want to teach my daughters computers; I have to educate them -- get (them) married to a nice boy," she added.
The number of skilled
doctors has made India a global Mecca for couples seeking someone to
carry their baby for them. At this hostel, all the women are under the
care of Dr. Nayana Patel. She began caring for surrogates in 2003, when
she helped a grandmother who was carrying twins for her daughter.
"That's when I started
commercial surrogacy because not everyone is lucky to have a mother or a
sister or a friend to carry their child," she said.
"The surrogate is
getting the life that she dreamed of, because otherwise she could not
get this kind of money or change the life for her husband, her children,
get a house, educated her children," said Patel, who has delivered
close to 700 babies from surrogates for 580 couples since 2004. "And the
couple could never have had a child if the surrogate had not helped
them. So -- the ultimate result is a baby has come into this earth,
which is beautiful."
India has now taken
steps to regulate the industry. It's banned foreign same-sex couples and
single parents from hiring surrogates. A new proposal would require
mothers be aged between 21 and 35.
Patel has had "lots of
inquiries from same sex couples but we have never done it. Not for any
other reason, this being a small town, people are not aware of all this
and for the surrogate to be introduced to same sex couple would be too
much, I felt."
Critics call India's
surrogacy clinics baby-making factories. "Commercialization has led to a
lot of financial exploitation of these women," said Ranjana Kumari, a
women's rights activist and director of the Center for Social Research
in New Delhi.
Although surrogates
interviewed in Anand say they get as much as U.S. $8,000, Kumari
said research by the center shows that promised cash from surrogacy
clinics often fall short -- sometimes being paid as little as U.S.$800.
"So its not really a profitable business as is presented," Kumari said.
"If someone really has
to opt for the child, somebody's friend should offer a womb, somebody's
relative should offer the womb. Why it has to be the poor woman? It's
like organ sale," Kumari added.
Surrogates say locals
also look down on the practice. "People in the village think it's a
dirty thing. Old people in the village, they don't have good thoughts,"
said Manjula. "For me, Dr. Patel has done a good thing."
Surrogate mother Madhu
Makwan says the service has completely changed the fortunes for herself
and her family. Asked what she would say to the Canadian parents who
rented her womb: "I'd say thank you. I don't know how to say anything
else in English!
"I've got a chance now to make my life," said Makwan, wiping tears from her eyes. "God has been kind."
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